Showing posts with label fathers. Show all posts
Showing posts with label fathers. Show all posts

Friday, June 22, 2012

Father who blames obesity for losing custody of kids plans hunger strike



How much weight is too much weight to raise children?
One Ottawa father of two claims the family court has pegged that number at 360 pounds — his current weight.
As CTV News reports, the 38-year-old man, who can't be identified under the Child and Family Services Act, is planning a hunger strike after a judge ordered that his children be put up for adoption.
According to the father, the number on his scale played a role in his loss of custody.
"One of the reasons they used is because I was too fat, and couldn't keep up with my children," he told the news network.
At 360 pounds, a doctor at the family court clinic said the man's physical issues interfere with his ability to raise his children.
"(The father) has struggled with obesity for years, which impacts significantly on most aspects of his life including (his) functioning as a parent," the doctor wrote.
The man previously weighed in at 525 pounds and told CBC that, while he was offered taxpayer-funded gastric bypass surgery, he preferred to do it on his own so he would "respect the weight loss" himself.
He said he hasn't seen his children for over a year and accuses the court of leveraging his obesity to keep the 5- and 6-year-old boys in foster care.
"They picked the one thing they could use as a quantitative number. I'm a fantastic father, I love my kids wholeheartedly."
The father said part of his weight problem stemmed from his poor relationship with his ex-wife (and the children's mother), which caused him to overeat, but that he's overcome that impulse.
The children were removed last year from their mother's home after she was hospitalized for a suspected drug overdose and a "mental breakdown."
Though court representatives are prevented from commenting on the case, they released a brief statement saying, "Every case is unique … mental and physical issues are examined as well as any special needs of the children."
There are also a number of other factors that may have contributed to the court's decision.
While he now claims to be clean, the father has copped to past issues with marijuana use and minor run-ins with the law. The court also described him as aggressive, a charge he firmly denies, adding that he's completed anger management classes.
Meanwhile, the story has traveled as far as the Daily Mail as people weigh in on whether waist size should have any impact on a parent's legal right to raise his or her children.

Monday, June 27, 2011

The Comeback - Shane Hodge

Well i recieved a surprise email this morning and decidied to check it out. It came from this guy named Sane Hodge from Austrailia, so he talks a little funny (kidding) but he makes a lot of sense. From what I have heard and read so far he is talking about divorce and how it affects our life and worse our kids lives and his responses are words to live by. So check out his website, he has a few youtube videos and a Facebook page as well, all very good information..

http://thecomeback.com.au/

Saturday, June 19, 2010

A bit more of my story, but I need help now please...

Does anybody out there understand Canadian Family Law and maybe how to fight legal badagering? A quick overview of my issues... 2004 I find out my ex has been cheating on me for our entire relationship, I tried to overlook it and we do councilling. 2005 Her oldest daughter who was big in to drugs, drinking, and working the streets threatens to kill the 4 other children and gramma one night, so I said the daughter had to get help and live elsewhere until she did. The ex decides that her troubled daughter was more important than the family (yes the ex has many personal issues as well) her other daughter and our son (along with her boyfriends) and moves out saing "she just needs space" but drags he other daughter and our son with her. So teachers (against standard policy), coucillors and several judges agree that at least our son should not live in that environment and should live with me (dad), mom finds free , moraless and unscrupulus lawyer who in last count dragged me to the tune of 10's of thousands of dollars to 7+ judges and court proceedings to get our son on a 7 day rotation (I wont tell you here what this has done to his life or schooling). (The ex also dragged her other 3 childrens 3 fathers through hell to the point where they basically dont exist in the kids lives). So now Im broke and doing my best for our son and the kids I can help. Lots more story.... anyway I bring you to today... My house burnt down May 1st 2010, I was stupid enough to put her name on the house along with mine but other than outright taking the house from me she would settle for nothing and would not take her name off, she has no posessions in the house and has not lived there for 6 years. After the fire she signed off on conents and living allaowance with the insurance company, which I thought was great. and we would deal with the structure seperatly. Well now she has trying to get her lawyer to withdraw that agreement and she wants control of the living allowance and content monies. Which would essentially at this point put me on the street which as I see itat would now show me as incapable of taking care of our son and probably remove him from me (I may be wrong in my thinking here, I am not her, maybe she only wants more money, both in insurance and support). So what I hope someone can give me insight to law or canadian law as how she has any right or claim to something she has no (what should be) legal interest in. I cannot afford a lawyer, so I will have to represent myself. I hope I make a little sense in what i wrote, the story is much bigger and longer, but anything will help. Thanks

Saturday, June 12, 2010

Running for childrens rights in Canada

I cam across an article in my local paper about boxer who is running across Canada to raise awareness about some of the mistakes that the Canadian Family legal systen is failing our children. Kere is the link, it is pretty good and I think he is right and we need to help him... http://www.crosscanadarun4thechildren.com/. Read it and do what you can....