BC Family law does not give a damn about family, its a $1billion a year business

Canada Fathers Any advice to save my house? I only found out Oct. 19, 2010 that my ex had sold my house and I was to be out buy the end of today, but I was never served or told by anyone, infact the person who told me was told explicitly not to tell me, so yesterday I went to the courthouse to file either a lien or a subject to pendi...ng litigation order only to find out that a judge had already approved the sale last friday. So i talked to a duty council who gave me the proceedure to to follow (an order w/o notice (F29), a request to a stay (F31) and affidavit stating I was not served, and that they sold the house for much less than I offered, and property value my kid is in depression because of this, etc. I then asked the duty council and court registry if anything else needed to be done and the all believed it was all in order and good. I show up in court today only to have the judge reprimand me and refuse to hear me because I did not serve the other party. Is there anything I can do?

Loosing my house and my life...

Why is the family legal system so messed up in BC? I understand that being a judge is not easy but set a system up to get facts and truths not lies and fabricated stories or adversarial as seem to be acceptable these days. How is it that a person who enters a relationship can verbally, mentally and physically abuse everybody in the family except for her golden child, cheat throughout the entire relationship on top of taking advantage of all that living with this partner had to offer, work if they wanted to, go to college "just for information" not for a career, then leave after the golden child gets drunk/stoned and threatens to kill all the kids in the house have so much power in court and ability to manipulate the legal aid system to destroy everything that was built for the "family" and leave those left behind basically broke, and lost? To make matters worse I found out Oct, 19 that my house that I have lived in since 1997 was being sold without notice to me, and I am to be out by Oct 22. Is this fair or just?


Lost and now homeless in Kamloops